Looking For A Widow? - Best Second Marriage Website

Online romances can become intense very quickly. Most young widows speak at least some English, and the dating sites have an automatic translator on their chat facility, so you can actually have conversations with the girls who catch your eye on the site, before progressing to videocalls.

Young widows are famous for being a unique blend: they are feminine without being docile, beautiful without being modest, traditional without being prudish, independent without being demanding, passionate without being promiscuous.

Their culture encourages marriage quite early, and many widows dream of finding their soul-mate outside their home country.

On the other hand, to find beautiful, educated girls who actually seek the kind of traditional role which many western women reject, is the dream of a great many men. The ideal, for a young widow, is marriage, a home, and children.

Young widows are looking for men who want loving, traditional, committed relationships, so you will probably be given short shrift if they realize you don't want the same thing.

Widows are generally more openly flirtatious than western wife, but beware of dating sites which don't make clear that this is not all about being a pushover. A personals ad is intended to lead to dating, and dating for these women is intended to lead to marriage. Dating sites which discount this can lead to a lot of heartache. In particular, they should never allow you to feel that you are 'buying' a bride, or 'doing her a favour'. Mutual respect is the key here.

It is a huge commitment for a young widow from the typically close family, to leave her home and go to a strange culture. She is not necessarily mercenary, but she will be taking a big step into the unknown, and will have to feel that, if she does this, you will be fully committed to taking care of her, and if need be, supporting her financially, if she does not have the means of having her own career in your home country.

Or if indeed, you prefer a more traditional role, with you as bread-winner. For most girls, this will mean children, so don't be coy about whether or not you want to be a father, perhaps for the second time.

Widows, while charming and warm, are notoriously honest and open – this is not intended as bluntness or rudeness. It's simply that they dislike deception. Expect to speak out about what you want, rather than being reserved and hoping she will guess.

Young widows love romantic gestures at least as much as any other lady, but they come from a culture which likes to get the practicalities sorted out first.

One other thing: for all the same reasons, you must be sure that you are getting the very best from your chosen dating site, so read the personal ads carefully. Don't just be taken in by a pretty face. There will be interesting, charming, and exciting cultural differences... but make sure you share the same basic values, especially about what a relationship means to you.